{"version":"https://jsonfeed.org/version/1","title":"Cecilia Escobedo, LMFT","home_page_url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com","description":"Cecilia Escobedo, LMFT","author":{"name":"Cecilia Escobedo, LMFT"},"items":[{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-el-exceso-en-el-sentir-oscurece-el-pensar--y-viceversa","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/tumisu-brain-7314502_1920.jpg\"/><p>“Mi novio es tan lógico en su estilo de comunicación. Le digo: ‘No me siento escuchada’, y él responde con una lista de lo que dije”.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-el-exceso-en-el-sentir-oscurece-el-pensar--y-viceversa","title":"Cuando el exceso en el sentir oscurece el pensar -y viceversa ","summary":"“Mi novio es tan lógico en su estilo de comunicación. Le digo: ‘No me siento escuchada’, y él responde con una lista de lo que dije”.","date_modified":"2026-09-06T14:48:20Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-excessive-feeling-obscures-our-thinking--and-viceversa","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/tumisu-brain-7314502_1920.jpg\"/><p>“My partner is so logical about things. I tell him, ‘I do not feel heard by you,’ and he responds with a factual list of what I said.”</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-excessive-feeling-obscures-our-thinking--and-viceversa","title":"When Excessive Feeling Obscures Our Thinking  -and Viceversa","summary":"“My partner is so logical about things. I tell him, ‘I do not feel heard by you,’ and he responds with a factual list of what I said.”","date_modified":"2026-09-03T15:56:06Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-la-inocencia-inconsciente-invita-a-los-lobos","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/moeinium-ai-generated-9008297_1920.jpg\"/><p>“Es que simplemente no sé mentir”, me dice mi cliente.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-la-inocencia-inconsciente-invita-a-los-lobos","title":"Cuando la Inocencia Inconsciente Invita a los Lobos","summary":"“Es que simplemente no sé mentir”, me dice mi cliente.","date_modified":"2026-08-23T14:38:36Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-unconscious-innocence-invites-the-wolves","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/moeinium-ai-generated-9008297_1920.jpg\"/><p>“I just don’t know how to lie” tells my client.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-unconscious-innocence-invites-the-wolves","title":"When Unconscious Innocence Invites the Wolves   ","summary":"“I just don’t know how to lie” tells my client.","date_modified":"2026-08-22T12:10:22Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-%E2%80%9Cdescentrar-a-los-hombres%E2%80%9D-se-convierte-en-una-forma-de-ev","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/analogicus-open-4033043_1920.jpg\"/><p>“Creo que necesito dejar de centrar tanto mi vida en el amor romántico. Mi amiga no para de decirme: ‘Tú vive tu mejor vida y el hombre indicado aparecerá cuando menos lo esperes’. Creo que tiene razón” me dice mi client...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-%E2%80%9Cdescentrar-a-los-hombres%E2%80%9D-se-convierte-en-una-forma-de-ev","title":"¿Descentrar a los Hombres o Evitar el Amor?","summary":"“Creo que necesito dejar de centrar tanto mi vida en el amor romántico. Mi amiga no para de decirme: ‘Tú vive tu mejor vida y el hombre indicado aparecerá cuando menos lo esperes’. Creo que tiene razón” me dice mi client...","date_modified":"2026-08-09T15:22:24Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-decentering-men-becomes-a-defense-against-vulnerability","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/analogicus-open-4033043_1920.jpg\"/><p>\"I think I need to decenter romantic love. My friend keeps telling me, ‘Just live your best life and the right guy will fall into your lap.' I think she's right\" my client, a woman in her mid-forties who longs for a life...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-decentering-men-becomes-a-defense-against-vulnerability","title":"  When “Decentering Men” Becomes a Defense Against Vulnerability","summary":"\"I think I need to decenter romantic love. My friend keeps telling me, ‘Just live your best life and the right guy will fall into your lap.' I think she's right\" my client, a woman in her mid-forties who longs for a life...","date_modified":"2026-08-06T14:51:24Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-complejo-de-no-pertenecer-por-qu%C3%A9-la-exclusi%C3%B3n-duele-tanto","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/feeloona-lonely-604086_1920.jpg\"/><p>“Mi compañera de trabajo invitó a todos en la oficina a su fiesta de cumpleaños, menos a mí. Y no es la primera vez que me pasa algo así.”</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-complejo-de-no-pertenecer-por-qu%C3%A9-la-exclusi%C3%B3n-duele-tanto","title":"El complejo de no pertenecer: por qué la exclusión duele tanto ","summary":"“Mi compañera de trabajo invitó a todos en la oficina a su fiesta de cumpleaños, menos a mí. Y no es la primera vez que me pasa algo así.”","date_modified":"2026-07-26T14:52:00Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-outsider-complex-why-exclusion-hurts-so-much","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/feeloona-lonely-604086_1920.jpg\"/><p>“My co-worker invited everyone in the office to her birthday party except me. This is not the first time this has happened.”</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-outsider-complex-why-exclusion-hurts-so-much","title":"The Outsider Complex: Why Exclusion Hurts So Much","summary":"“My co-worker invited everyone in the office to her birthday party except me. This is not the first time this has happened.”","date_modified":"2026-07-25T15:04:55Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-precio-oculto-de-volverte-indispensable","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/noname_13-heart-2945406.jpg\"/><p>“Mi novio dice que tengo que recordarle cuándo le toca limpiar el baño. ¿Por qué tengo que hacerlo? A mí nadie me recuerda que debo trapear los pisos”, me dice una paciente.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-precio-oculto-de-volverte-indispensable","title":"El precio oculto de volverte indispensable","summary":"“Mi novio dice que tengo que recordarle cuándo le toca limpiar el baño. ¿Por qué tengo que hacerlo? A mí nadie me recuerda que debo trapear los pisos”, me dice una paciente.","date_modified":"2026-07-14T14:00:50Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/from-martyr-to-queen-the-hidden-cost-of-becoming-indispensable","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/noname_13-heart-2945406.jpg\"/><p>“My boyfriend says I have to remind him when it is his turn to clean the bathroom. Why do I need to do that? No one reminds me of mopping the floors” tells my client.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/from-martyr-to-queen-the-hidden-cost-of-becoming-indispensable","title":"From Martyr to Queen: The Hidden Cost of Becoming Indispensable","summary":"“My boyfriend says I have to remind him when it is his turn to clean the bathroom. Why do I need to do that? No one reminds me of mopping the floors” tells my client.","date_modified":"2026-07-08T13:26:58Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-la-voz-de-tu-madre-se-convierte-en-tu-propia-voz","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/iddea_photo-care-9719575_1920.jpg\"/><p>“Mi madre siempre me decía que yo era muy sensible y dramática. Creo que tenía unos cinco años cuando me lo dijo por primera vez. No quería ir al preescolar sin mi manta favorita”, me contó una clienta en sus cuarenta.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-la-voz-de-tu-madre-se-convierte-en-tu-propia-voz","title":"Cuando la Voz de tu Madre se Convierte en tu Propia Voz","summary":"“Mi madre siempre me decía que yo era muy sensible y dramática. Creo que tenía unos cinco años cuando me lo dijo por primera vez. No quería ir al preescolar sin mi manta favorita”, me contó una clienta en sus cuarenta.","date_modified":"2026-06-21T15:42:38Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-your-mothers-voice-becomes-your-own","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/iddea_photo-care-9719575_1920.jpg\"/><p>“My mother always told me I was too difficult and sensitive. I think I was about five when she first said that. I wanted to bring my special blanket to preschool”, a client in her late forties told me.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-your-mothers-voice-becomes-your-own","title":"Breaking the Spell of the Negative Mother Complex","summary":"“My mother always told me I was too difficult and sensitive. I think I was about five when she first said that. I wanted to bring my special blanket to preschool”, a client in her late forties told me.","date_modified":"2026-06-20T17:22:48Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/%C2%BFpor-qu%C3%A9-me-siento-vac%C3%ADa-si-mi-vida-est%C3%A1-bien","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/bluefarrar-elephant-2647203_1920.jpg\"/><p>“Mi vida está bien. Tengo un buen trabajo, una familia bonita y, sin embargo, me he estado sintiendo decaído sin ninguna razón aparente”, me dice un cliente que ronda los cincuenta años.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/%C2%BFpor-qu%C3%A9-me-siento-vac%C3%ADa-si-mi-vida-est%C3%A1-bien","title":"¿Por Qué Me Siento Vacía Si Mi Vida Está Bien? ","summary":"“Mi vida está bien. Tengo un buen trabajo, una familia bonita y, sin embargo, me he estado sintiendo decaído sin ninguna razón aparente”, me dice un cliente que ronda los cincuenta años.","date_modified":"2026-06-15T13:51:14Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/why-you-feel-low-even-when-life-is-good","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/bluefarrar-elephant-2647203_1920.jpg\"/><p>“My life is okay. I have a good job, I have a fine family, yet I have been feeling low for no reason” my client who is in his late 40s tells me.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/why-you-feel-low-even-when-life-is-good","title":"The Hidden Gift of Feeling Low in Midlife ","summary":"“My life is okay. I have a good job, I have a fine family, yet I have been feeling low for no reason” my client who is in his late 40s tells me.","date_modified":"2026-06-13T13:21:35Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-costo-de-mantener-todas-las-puertas-abiertas","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/hobim-ai-generated-8670284.jpg\"/><p>“¿Y si existe un hombre mejor que mi novio para mí? Él es un buen tipo pero una parte de mí sigue preguntándose si habrá alguien mejor. No quiero cerrar la puerta a esa posibilidad”, me dice mi clienta, una mujer de casi...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-costo-de-mantener-todas-las-puertas-abiertas","title":"El costo de mantener todas las puertas abiertas","summary":"“¿Y si existe un hombre mejor que mi novio para mí? Él es un buen tipo pero una parte de mí sigue preguntándose si habrá alguien mejor. No quiero cerrar la puerta a esa posibilidad”, me dice mi clienta, una mujer de casi...","date_modified":"2026-06-07T16:11:21Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-seduction-of-the-fantasy-why-george-can-never-win","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/hobim-ai-generated-8670284.jpg\"/><p>\"What if there is a better guy out there? My boyfriend is okay, but a part of me keeps wondering whether someone better exists. I do not want to close the door on that possibility\", says my client, a woman in her late th...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-seduction-of-the-fantasy-why-george-can-never-win","title":"The Tragedy of Chasing Infinite Possibilities ","summary":"\"What if there is a better guy out there? My boyfriend is okay, but a part of me keeps wondering whether someone better exists. I do not want to close the door on that possibility\", says my client, a woman in her late th...","date_modified":"2026-06-05T16:24:57Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-precio-oculto-de-la-autenticidad","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/roonznl-sunset-5033708.jpg\"/><p>«Cuanto más firmes se vuelven mis límites, más relaciones pierdo o corro el riesgo de perder. ¿Puedo seguir manteniendo en mi vida a las personas que amo, incluida mi madre, y al mismo tiempo establecer límites que no me...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-precio-oculto-de-la-autenticidad","title":"El Precio Oculto De La Autenticidad","summary":"«Cuanto más firmes se vuelven mis límites, más relaciones pierdo o corro el riesgo de perder. ¿Puedo seguir manteniendo en mi vida a las personas que amo, incluida mi madre, y al mismo tiempo establecer límites que no me...","date_modified":"2026-05-31T12:50:42Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-loneliness-of-becoming-yourself","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/roonznl-sunset-5033708.jpg\"/><p>“The firmer my boundaries become, the more relationships I either lose or risk losing. Can I still keep the people I love in my life, including my mother, and create boundaries that do not leave me all alone?” my client ...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-loneliness-of-becoming-yourself","title":"The Hidden Price of Authenticity","summary":"“The firmer my boundaries become, the more relationships I either lose or risk losing. Can I still keep the people I love in my life, including my mother, and create boundaries that do not leave me all alone?” my client ...","date_modified":"2026-05-29T15:11:09Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-los-caminos-equivocados-nos-conducen-al-destino-correcto","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/bru-no-path-3638472.jpg\"/><p>“Probablemente el hecho de que esté debatiendo en ser madre o no sea una señal que la maternidad no es para mí. Seguro que otras mujeres saben que quieren ser madres desde sus 20, no a los 41”, dice mi clienta.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-los-caminos-equivocados-nos-conducen-al-destino-correcto","title":"Cuando Los Caminos Equivocados Nos Conducen Al Destino Correcto ","summary":"“Probablemente el hecho de que esté debatiendo en ser madre o no sea una señal que la maternidad no es para mí. Seguro que otras mujeres saben que quieren ser madres desde sus 20, no a los 41”, dice mi clienta.","date_modified":"2026-05-24T12:57:15Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-wrong-turns-lead-us-home","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/bru-no-path-3638472.jpg\"/><p>“The fact that I am thinking so deeply about motherhood is probably a sign that it is not for me. I bet other women know they want to become mothers in their 20s, not at 41,” my client tells me.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-wrong-turns-lead-us-home","title":"When Wrong Turns Lead Us Home ","summary":"“The fact that I am thinking so deeply about motherhood is probably a sign that it is not for me. I bet other women know they want to become mothers in their 20s, not at 41,” my client tells me.","date_modified":"2026-05-22T13:26:31Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/inflaci%C3%B3n-positiva-la-energ%C3%ADa-que-nos-impulsa-hacia-adelante","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/tama66-bridge-3024773.jpg\"/><p>“Me siento tan perdida. ¿Cómo sé cuál es el camino correcto para mí?” me pregunta mi paciente. Tiene poco más de treinta años y está considerando dejar su trabajo donde ha estado durante más de diez años para a estudiar ...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/inflaci%C3%B3n-positiva-la-energ%C3%ADa-que-nos-impulsa-hacia-adelante","title":"Inflación Positiva: La Energía Que Nos Impulsa Hacia Adelante","summary":"“Me siento tan perdida. ¿Cómo sé cuál es el camino correcto para mí?” me pregunta mi paciente. Tiene poco más de treinta años y está considerando dejar su trabajo donde ha estado durante más de diez años para a estudiar ...","date_modified":"2026-05-07T12:03:03Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/kkk","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/tama66-bridge-3024773.jpg\"/><p>“I feel so lost. How do I know which path is the right one for me?” my client asks. She is in her late 30s, considering leaving her retail job of 10 years to go back to school for nursing.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/kkk","title":"Positive Inflation: The Energy That Carries Us Forward ","summary":"“I feel so lost. How do I know which path is the right one for me?” my client asks. She is in her late 30s, considering leaving her retail job of 10 years to go back to school for nursing.","date_modified":"2026-05-01T16:51:01Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/la-vida-no-vivida","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/ben_kerckx-child-1293325_1920.jpg\"/><p>“Ella es tan tímida, no como yo. Cuando tenía 12 años, tenía amigos, hacía deportes, me iba bien en la escuela. Ella se rinde demasiado fácil cuando se enfrenta a algo difícil. Odio decirlo en voz alta, pero es tan floja...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/la-vida-no-vivida","title":"El Gran Potencial Que Se Esconde En Tu Vida No Vivida","summary":"“Ella es tan tímida, no como yo. Cuando tenía 12 años, tenía amigos, hacía deportes, me iba bien en la escuela. Ella se rinde demasiado fácil cuando se enfrenta a algo difícil. Odio decirlo en voz alta, pero es tan floja...","date_modified":"2026-04-25T16:02:29Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/how-to-unlock-the-power-of-the-unlived-life","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/ben_kerckx-child-1293325_1920.jpg\"/><p>“She is so shy, not like me. When I was 12, I had friends, played sports, did well in school. She gives up too easily when she faces something hard. I hate to say this out loud, but she’s so lazy…” my client tells me abo...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/how-to-unlock-the-power-of-the-unlived-life","title":"How to Unlock the Power of Your Unlived Life","summary":"“She is so shy, not like me. When I was 12, I had friends, played sports, did well in school. She gives up too easily when she faces something hard. I hate to say this out loud, but she’s so lazy…” my client tells me abo...","date_modified":"2026-04-25T13:40:23Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/por-qu%C3%A9-convertirse-en-tu-verdadero-ser-no-se-siente-bien","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/eglantineshala-house-9062509.png\"/><p>“He estado en terapia prácticamente desde que era una niña. He leído todos los libros de autoayuda. Sé por qué estoy mal y aun así sigo eligiendo a los hombres equivocados”, confiesa mi clienta, frustrada consigo misma.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/por-qu%C3%A9-convertirse-en-tu-verdadero-ser-no-se-siente-bien","title":"Porqué Convertirse En Tu Verdadero Ser No Se Siente Bien ","summary":"“He estado en terapia prácticamente desde que era una niña. He leído todos los libros de autoayuda. Sé por qué estoy mal y aun así sigo eligiendo a los hombres equivocados”, confiesa mi clienta, frustrada consigo misma.","date_modified":"2026-04-19T13:08:34Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/why-becoming-your-true-self-does-not-feel-good","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/eglantineshala-house-9062509.png\"/><p>“I have been in therapy since I was practically a kid. I have read all the self-help books. I know why I’m messed up and yet I keep choosing the wrong men,” my client confesses, frustrated with herself.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/why-becoming-your-true-self-does-not-feel-good","title":"Why Becoming your True Self Does Not Feel Good (Initially)","summary":"“I have been in therapy since I was practically a kid. I have read all the self-help books. I know why I’m messed up and yet I keep choosing the wrong men,” my client confesses, frustrated with herself.","date_modified":"2026-04-18T15:22:20Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/del-sacrificio-al-deseo-como-volver-a-sentirnos-vivas","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/ella_k-hook-479270.jpg\"/><p>“Trabajo más que todos en mi trabajo. A menudo me quedo hasta después de las 5:00. Sin embargo, no me siento apreciada por mi supervisor”, confiesa mi clienta.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/del-sacrificio-al-deseo-como-volver-a-sentirnos-vivas","title":"Del Sacrificio al Deseo: Como Volver a Sentirnos Vivas","summary":"“Trabajo más que todos en mi trabajo. A menudo me quedo hasta después de las 5:00. Sin embargo, no me siento apreciada por mi supervisor”, confiesa mi clienta.","date_modified":"2026-04-11T14:13:55Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/from-martyrdom-to-freedom-reclaiming-your-vitality","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/ella_k-hook-479270.jpg\"/><p>“I work more than everyone else at my job. I stay after 5:00 often. Yet my boss doesn’t seem to appreciate me much,” my client confesses.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/from-martyrdom-to-freedom-reclaiming-your-vitality","title":"From Martyrdom to Freedom: Reclaiming Your Vitality","summary":"“I work more than everyone else at my job. I stay after 5:00 often. Yet my boss doesn’t seem to appreciate me much,” my client confesses.","date_modified":"2026-04-10T13:00:30Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-poder-de-una-atracci%C3%B3n-irresistible-entendiendo-limerencia","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/arttower-ballet-6991670.jpg\"/><p>“Él es el tipo perfecto. Surfea, es inteligente, tiene buenos amigos y se dedica mucho a su trabajo. Seríamos una gran pareja”, me cuenta mi clienta sobre el hombre que conoció hace tres semanas.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-poder-de-una-atracci%C3%B3n-irresistible-entendiendo-limerencia","title":"El Poder de una Atracción Irresistible: Entendiendo Limerencia","summary":"“Él es el tipo perfecto. Surfea, es inteligente, tiene buenos amigos y se dedica mucho a su trabajo. Seríamos una gran pareja”, me cuenta mi clienta sobre el hombre que conoció hace tres semanas.","date_modified":"2026-04-04T14:34:40Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/why-the-surf-guy-has-your-heart-understanding-limerence","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/arttower-ballet-6991670.jpg\"/><p>“He is so perfect. He surfs often, is smart, has nice friends, and is very devoted to his work. We would make a great couple,” my client tells me about the man she met three weeks ago.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/why-the-surf-guy-has-your-heart-understanding-limerence","title":"Why the Surf Guy Has Your Heart: Understanding Limerence","summary":"“He is so perfect. He surfs often, is smart, has nice friends, and is very devoted to his work. We would make a great couple,” my client tells me about the man she met three weeks ago.","date_modified":"2026-04-03T13:43:10Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-inconsciente-como-fuente-de-gu%C3%ADa","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/devendarreddy404-hummingbird-9940395_1920.jpg\"/><p>“Me siento tan perdida”, me dice mi clienta después de haber sido despedida de un trabajo al que había dedicado años de esfuerzo.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/el-inconsciente-como-fuente-de-gu%C3%ADa","title":"El Inconsciente como Fuente de Guía","summary":"“Me siento tan perdida”, me dice mi clienta después de haber sido despedida de un trabajo al que había dedicado años de esfuerzo.","date_modified":"2026-03-29T13:43:51Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/ksadlklklk","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/devendarreddy404-hummingbird-9940395_1920.jpg\"/><p>“I feel so lost,” my client tells me, after being laid off from a job she had devoted years of hard work to.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/ksadlklklk","title":"The Unconscious as a Source of Guidance ","summary":"“I feel so lost,” my client tells me, after being laid off from a job she had devoted years of hard work to.","date_modified":"2026-03-28T13:58:51Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/del-rat%C3%B3n-al-intruso-reconfigurando-el-sistema-nervioso","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/neurons.jpg\"/><p>“Sé que debería haber preguntado por qué describió a su ex como ‘loca’, o por qué a veces tarda días en responder mis mensajes. Ya han pasado tres meses desde que empezamos a salir, y ahora hay aún banderitas rojas”, me ...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/del-rat%C3%B3n-al-intruso-reconfigurando-el-sistema-nervioso","title":"Del Ratón al Intruso: Reconfigurando el Sistema Nervioso","summary":"“Sé que debería haber preguntado por qué describió a su ex como ‘loca’, o por qué a veces tarda días en responder mis mensajes. Ya han pasado tres meses desde que empezamos a salir, y ahora hay aún banderitas rojas”, me ...","date_modified":"2026-03-23T14:22:36Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/kkkkkkk","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/neurons.jpg\"/><p>“I know I should have asked why he described his ex as ‘crazy,’ or why he sometimes takes days to reply to my texts. Now it has been two months since we started dating, and there are even more red flags,” my client tells...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/kkkkkkk","title":"  How We Lose and Restore Access to Our Instincts ","summary":"“I know I should have asked why he described his ex as ‘crazy,’ or why he sometimes takes days to reply to my texts. Now it has been two months since we started dating, and there are even more red flags,” my client tells...","date_modified":"2026-03-22T14:29:24Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/la-sombra-de-la-virtud-cuando","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/bertsz-window-1533513_1920.jpg\"/><p>Carl Jung, el psiquiatra suizo, creía que la capacidad para el mal forma parte de la condición humana. Sostenía que toda persona contiene rasgos latentes que no le resulta fácil aceptar, como la violencia, la envidia, la...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/la-sombra-de-la-virtud-cuando","title":"La Sombra de la Virtud: Cómo Algo Bueno Puede Volverse Dañino","summary":"Carl Jung, el psiquiatra suizo, creía que la capacidad para el mal forma parte de la condición humana. Sostenía que toda persona contiene rasgos latentes que no le resulta fácil aceptar, como la violencia, la envidia, la...","date_modified":"2026-03-13T12:37:50Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/theeee","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/bertsz-window-1533513_1920.jpg\"/><p>Carl Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist, believed that the capacity for evil is part of the human condition. Every person, he argued, contains latent traits they cannot easily accept such as violence, envy, cruelty, hatred, th...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/theeee","title":"The Shadow of Virtue: When Goodness Turns Harmful","summary":"Carl Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist, believed that the capacity for evil is part of the human condition. Every person, he argued, contains latent traits they cannot easily accept such as violence, envy, cruelty, hatred, th...","date_modified":"2026-03-11T13:16:05Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/la-sombra-dorada-el-poder-oculto-que-proyectamos-en-los-dem%C3%A1s","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/Golden%20Shadow%20final.jpg\"/><p>“Ella tiene tanta confianza en sí misma; yo nunca podría hablar así.”\n“Mi hermano es el inteligente. A mí siempre me costó la escuela.”\n“Solo unas pocas mujeres con suerte consiguen a los buenos hombres. El resto de noso...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/la-sombra-dorada-el-poder-oculto-que-proyectamos-en-los-dem%C3%A1s","title":"La Sombra Dorada: El Poder Oculto que Proyectamos en los Demás","summary":"“Ella tiene tanta confianza en sí misma; yo nunca podría hablar así.”\n“Mi hermano es el inteligente. A mí siempre me costó la escuela.”\n“Solo unas pocas mujeres con suerte consiguen a los buenos hombres. El resto de noso...","date_modified":"2026-03-06T14:16:20Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-golden-shadow-the-hidden-power-we-project-onto-others","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/Golden%20Shadow%20final.jpg\"/><p>“She is so confident, I could never speak up like that.”\n“My brother is the smart one. I always struggled in school.”\n“Only a few lucky women get the good guys. The rest of us don’t.”</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-golden-shadow-the-hidden-power-we-project-onto-others","title":"The Golden Shadow: The Hidden Power We Project onto Others","summary":"“She is so confident, I could never speak up like that.”\n“My brother is the smart one. I always struggled in school.”\n“Only a few lucky women get the good guys. The rest of us don’t.”","date_modified":"2026-03-05T14:46:42Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/como-reconocer-el-amor-verdadero-despu%C3%A9s-de-los-40","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/IMG_20250531_181707769_HDR-EDIT.jpg\"/><p>No, no hablo de finalmente empezar a salir con una versión tamaño humano de Pedro Pascal… Hablo de reconocer una versión más sabia, más experimentada, auténtica y con el ego más desinflado de TI MISMA.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/como-reconocer-el-amor-verdadero-despu%C3%A9s-de-los-40","title":"Como Reconocer el Amor Verdadero después de los 40 ","summary":"No, no hablo de finalmente empezar a salir con una versión tamaño humano de Pedro Pascal… Hablo de reconocer una versión más sabia, más experimentada, auténtica y con el ego más desinflado de TI MISMA.","date_modified":"2026-02-28T14:54:47Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-la-fortaleza-se-convierte-en-armadura","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/open%20hand%20image.jpg\"/><p>«Si no lo hago yo, nadie lo hará.»\n«Tengo que ganarme mi lugar.»\n«Si me relajo, me voy a derrumbar.»\n«No puedo darme el lujo de tomarme un día libre por enfermedad.»</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/cuando-la-fortaleza-se-convierte-en-armadura","title":"Cuando la Fortaleza se Convierte en Armadura ","summary":"«Si no lo hago yo, nadie lo hará.»\n«Tengo que ganarme mi lugar.»\n«Si me relajo, me voy a derrumbar.»\n«No puedo darme el lujo de tomarme un día libre por enfermedad.»","date_modified":"2026-02-28T13:33:17Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-survival-strength-becomes-the-armor-that-cuts-women-fromlove","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/open%20hand%20image.jpg\"/><p>“If I don’t do it, no one will.”\n“I must earn my place.”\n“If I slow down, I’ll fall apart.”\n“I can’t afford to take a sick day.”\n\nI have heard countless women speak these words -women who find themselves used, exhausted,...</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/when-survival-strength-becomes-the-armor-that-cuts-women-fromlove","title":"When Pseudo Strength Becomes the Armor that Cuts Women from Love","summary":"“If I don’t do it, no one will.”\n“I must earn my place.”\n“If I slow down, I’ll fall apart.”\n“I can’t afford to take a sick day.”\n\nI have heard countless women speak these words -women who find themselves used, exhausted,...","date_modified":"2026-02-27T17:05:46Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/la-herida-negativa-del-padre-interior-en-las-mujeres","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/124364\"/><p>“¿O sea que estás diciendo que tengo a un tipo viviendo dentro de mí sin pagar alquiler?”, preguntó mi paciente.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/la-herida-negativa-del-padre-interior-en-las-mujeres","title":"La Herida Negativa del Padre Interior en las Mujeres","summary":"“¿O sea que estás diciendo que tengo a un tipo viviendo dentro de mí sin pagar alquiler?”, preguntó mi paciente.","date_modified":"2026-02-22T14:53:10Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-negative-inner-father-wound-in-women","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/stock/124364\"/><p>“So, you’re saying I have a rent-free dude living inside me?” my female client asked.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/the-negative-inner-father-wound-in-women","title":"The Negative Inner Father Wound in Women","summary":"“So, you’re saying I have a rent-free dude living inside me?” my female client asked.","date_modified":"2026-02-21T16:00:39Z"},{"id":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/living-authentically-through-depth-oriented-psychotherapy","html_content":"<img src=\"https://img1.wsimg.com/isteam/ip/29b53c61-e91e-400a-a971-534a12fb8ad1/ambrevega-hands-9642479.jpg\"/><p>No, I’m not talking about a human-sized version of Pedro Pascal. I’m talking about meeting a wiser, more experienced, more authentic, ego-deflated version of yourself.</p>","url":"https://ceciliaescobedo.com/about/f/living-authentically-through-depth-oriented-psychotherapy","title":"Why Midlife Is the Best Time to Meet the Love of Your Life","summary":"No, I’m not talking about a human-sized version of Pedro Pascal. I’m talking about meeting a wiser, more experienced, more authentic, ego-deflated version of yourself.","date_modified":"2026-02-13T14:22:11Z"}]}